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Compulsive sexual behavior, also known as hypersexuality or sexual addiction, is a pattern of sexual behavior that is excessive, and compulsive and causes significant distress or impairment in one's daily life. People with this condition often engage in sexual activities frequently and impulsively, and may experience intense cravings or urges to engage in sexual behavior. Compulsive sexual behavior can take many forms, such as excessive masturbation, use of pornography, and risky sexual behaviors. The causes of compulsive sexual behavior are not fully understood but may include psychological, biological, and social factors. Treatment for compulsive sexual behavior may involve therapy, medication, or a combination of both. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is a commonly used form of psychotherapy that can help individuals identify and change their compulsive sexual thoughts and behaviors. Medications such as antidepressants or mood stabilizers may also be used to treat underlying mental health conditions that may contribute to compulsive sexual behavior.
Although the causes of compulsive sexual behavior are unclear, they may include:
Because the cause of compulsive sexual behavior isn't known, it's not clear how it might be prevented, but a few things may help keep this type of behavior in check:
Treatment for compulsive sexual behavior typically involves psychotherapy, medications and self-help groups. A primary goal of treatment is to help you manage urges and reduce excessive behaviors while maintaining healthy sexual activities.
If you have compulsive sexual behavior, you may also need treatment for another mental health condition. People with compulsive sexual behavior often have alcohol or drug abuse problems or other mental health problems, such as anxiety or depression, which need treatment.
People with other addictions or severe mental health problems or who pose a danger to others may benefit from inpatient treatment initially. Whether inpatient or outpatient, treatment may be intense at first. And you may find periodic, ongoing treatment through the years helpful to prevent relapses.
Psychotherapy, also called talk therapy, can help you learn how to manage your compulsive sexual behavior. Types of psychotherapy include:
These therapies can be provided in an individual, group, family or couples format.
In addition to psychotherapy, certain medications may help because they act on brain chemicals linked to obsessive thoughts and behaviors, reduce the chemical "rewards" these behaviors provide when you act on them, or reduce sexual urges. Which medication or medications are best for you depend on your situation and other mental health conditions you may have.
Medications used to treat compulsive sexual behavior are often prescribed primarily for other conditions. Examples include:
Self-help and support groups can be helpful for people with compulsive sexual behavior and for dealing with some of the issues it can cause. Many groups are modeled after the 12-step program of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA).
These groups can help you:
These groups may be internet-based or have local in-person meetings, or both. If you're interested in a self-help group, look for one that has a good reputation and that makes you feel comfortable. Such groups don't suit everyone's taste. Ask your mental health professional for suggested groups or about alternatives to support groups.